5 girls' common problem in this modern world

Category: Motivation || Published on : 2020-03-02 11:52:17 1507

Introduction: - Whenever we talk about girls’ problems then we think that now it is over, it was earlier that's why we don't focus on girls’ problems otherwise it can be solved. Many girls are shy that's why they don't share their problem with anyone which create problem of overthinking
Now many new problems have taken birth. Previously, problems happen with girls but now many problems are getting created by girls only.
1. Emotional problem: - It is scientifically proven that girls are more emotional in comparison to boys and somewhere it is result of our society, our environment. Whenever a girl weeps everyone does support it and consider girls, soft hearted and emotional but when a boy starts to weep, we consider him weak. we have been teaching and learning this only.
Girls are too sensitive. When somebody tells something to a girl who is close enough to the person to suggest something, then she starts to weep. Girls can't control their emotions which creates problem in many fields because at many places they can't weep. They have to control themselves.
2. Restrictions: - Now a days it has got lessened than before but it is not completely finished yet.
# Maximum girls are not allowed to go outside in night time because their parents have fear about them due to many mishappening with girl that we keep listening in the headlines of newspapers.
# They want their daughter to be secure and safe.
# Many are not allowed to talk to boys because their parents think that boys are not good for their daughters.
# Many girls are compelled to live in those area where jobs are not available for them because their family or their husband live in those areas.
3. Migration from paternal home to law home: - In paternal home whatever a girl wants, she gets by her father or brother. Before getting married girls don't take responsibility of their family and when they get married, they get bunch of responsibilities so, that's why girls like to be at paternal home mostly because they don't like to take responsibility of their law home.
After marriage they get a lot of restriction too which are less restrictions and more responsibilities.
4. Overthinking: - When we get stuck in our own thoughts that is called overthinking. it is not bad to think much because human has only power to think and if we don't think then how will we use our mind and how will we get to know about something. Overthinking becomes a problem when we use it on our illusion instead of reality.
Girls don't clear the things they make their own beliefs and start getting bothered by their own thinking.
In this case we should find happiness in others’ happiness then we would be in peace and we would be able to solve our problems with peaceful mind.
5. Moods swings: - Girls do work according to their mood not according to their conditions or their requirement.
If their mood is not good then they start to get angry and start to shout on others which make their relationship weak. If they want to eat something then they eat whether it is good or bad for their health.
Suggestions: - Develop a habit of behaving the same that you like to be behaved with self. If it is possible then clear the things which is bothering you. Make yourself strong that you can remove your parents' fear.
Every problem has solution, we just need to see our problems precisely then we would surly get the solution.