5 reasons of distances among family members

Category: Motivation || Published on : 2020-03-07 05:41:44 2276

Home is that place where we spend our most of time and family members are those people with whom we spend our time but now-a-days the distances among family members are increasing day- by- day. Children are not able to share their feelings with their parents and family members are not able to talk to each other. If someone would get time than he would not like to spend his time with family. There are many reasons behind this and some are written below-
1. Properties
Properties are the biggest reason that the distance among family members is increasing day-by-day. One brother is becoming enemy of his own brother. We are running towards money. We want to have all conveniences in our house but we don't know that we can't hug our house and bank balance when we feel alone. We are not trying to understand that we can't share our feelings with the materialistic things. We are building new and big houses, due to this the relationship among family members is getting broken.
2. Expectations
In family we expect something from the family members like a child expect from parents they will try to understand his condition and parents expect from the child that he will understand their conditions. But it doesn't happen and it arouses the wrath of the family members. And the conflict and controversies get increased. We want to get everything from the family members but we don't want to give anything to others. So -
"Expectations are the biggest reason of sadness, if you want to get real happiness than never expect anything from anyone."
3. Technology
Technology is that thing which is making our works easier than before. But somewhere it is creating some problems also. It is the biggest reason of the distances among family members. We are not living in the real world. We are with our family members but still we are not with them. We just spend our time on mobile. We are making new relationships and new friendships on social media but we are losing our real relationships.
4. Lack of understanding
We don't have the ability to express our feelings precisely. We can't express our feelings in front of our family members. We always have a thought in mind what if our family members wouldn’t understand to us. Whatever is in our mind it remains in our mind only. Other people can't understand our feelings and we can't understand the feelings of others. As per me the things should be cleared. By this only we can increase our understanding power.
5. Lack of aspiration
In family we keep searching the loop holes of people. We never try to search qualities of our family members. Whenever it comes to tell the loop holes of our family members we tell in front of everyone but when it comes to appreciate them, we don't appreciate. We are hiding the qualities and showing the loop holes. In fact, we should show the qualities and hide the loop holes. This is the biggest reason of the distances among family members.
In today’s aura it is important to have some people who can understand us but it will happen only when we will try to understand other people. Family is that thing which is somewhere important to live a happy life. Somethings are there which can't be changed by us. But we can change somethings.