5 things which may kill your love with your lover

Category: Motivation || Published on : 2020-03-07 05:38:00 1 1399

Love, it is generally called or recognized as a word. But if we endeavour to understand love then it is not just a word. It is a feeling which is considering as a precious priceless jewel for a person.

In true love we have to sacrifice ourselves, forgive blunder mistakes, ignore trifles, understand, trust, communicate, etc. love makes a person selfless and devoted to another one.
But now, the meaning of love is getting changed. Nowadays people become selfish and fall for materialistic things. If love makes you a person who does not behave nicely with others then it is just an attachment or attraction not love.

If love makes you greedy, egocentric and numb towards others’ emotions and conditions except for your beloved then your love is bubble gum love. Now we can also see that somethings can also kill our love with your lover.

Now, because of small things or unnecessary things relationship gets finished or broken. Many things may lead to a relationship to its end.


1. Distrust your lover: Trust is the foundation of any relationship but when it gets broken, the whole relationship get shattered when you distrust your lover because of ridiculous things like if he/she is talking, chatting or outing, etc with another person or because of other people’s talks about your relationship or lover, then it may lead your relationship and love through hardships.

2. Your negative attitude or egotistic behaviour: Love can change your whole personality and behaviour. But if you put your pride, your negative attitude or egotistic behaviour in your relationship or not behaving accurately with your lover then your lover starts feeling frustrated with your relationship. And if one day he/she will do the same things then you will feel disgusted or awkward and immediately your love would get ended.

3. Compare your lover or relationship with others: We all are different personalities and have different aspects to see everything. Like this, all relationships and their love are different from other relationships. If you start comparing your substructure or basis of relationship with other relationship, then it is not appropriate. The Comparison will only lead to jealousy, greed and insecurity and if you try to get love by materialistic things like others have done then one day your love will get expired towards your lover.


4. Dominating beloved’s life: As we all have different priorities regarding love, friendship, life, etc. These priorities should also be there in a relationship. You have to give a specific priority to your lover but when you or your beloved start crossing those priorities and interfere in each other’s lives then lover feels suffocated in that relationship and due to this domination, your love will not get continued.

5. Lack of understanding or communication: We all have precedence [priorities] towards love. In that case, we have to give adequate time to our lover. Because of giving time, our understanding and maturity towards each other will get increased. As time gets passed, we see that most of the relationship gets fractionized because of lack of understanding. Lovers aren’t able to connect with each other’s opinions. This may kill their love but no ego. As it is well said by Nicholas Sparks that-

“Love is like the wind; you can’t see it but you can feel it.”

But today’s generation is forgetting the meaning of true intense love which results in breaking of relationships. All of us know that love consists of two solitudes: meet protect and greet each other but today it is something like that two people meet for products and pleasure.

If you want to feel true love and don’t let these insignificant things to come in between your love as they all are considered as the barriers in a relationship.

If love makes a positive change in you and you start loving yourself more, then you are in true love.

“Mature love is composed and sustaining; a celebration of commitment, companionship and trust.